Takkan Mungkin Sama
One man was asked by his colleagues about his feelings after being newly married. He said “I felt the same. Before and after marriage. Maybe because we’re in a LDR” I smiled. “I think it’s a different situation for a woman. Women feel different regarding before and after being married and it doesn’t matter if LDR or not. But LDR really can make things bitter” A female senior colleague whom I respect, nodded. “Yes. It is definitely different. It wouldn’t be the same” What a guy feels and what a girl feels after marriage. That is why it is famously said that guys are from Mars and women are from Venus. We think differently, act differently and of course feels differently. Perbezaan itu bukanlah suatu benda yang buruk. Tetapi perbezaan itu perlu dihayati agar kita lebih memahami. Bahawa apabila nikah itu menyatukan, ia bukan fusion tetapi ia cuma mixture. Bergaul tetapi tidak bercantum sehingga menjadi suatu yang sama. Maksud lainnya, perbezaan itu perlu...