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Mental Load of Working Momsies

Can I just be frank? Situasi dia macam ni. As a working mom, you have the guilt of leaving your children for more than 10 hours with pengasuh. Lepas tu, rasa tak lengkap sebagai isteri bila tak boleh nak siapkan makanan untuk suami especially jika suami seorang yg rely on you bab makan-makan ni. So bila tak mampu nak uruskan semua, mulalah terbit di hujung minda kurang sedar untuk "jom resign nak".  Ini semua mom/wife guilt. I bet all the working moms got it.  Even though we know that the working period is actually our own me time (not mommy time), but the job drains us out as well.  Bila difikirkan, sama saja penatnya sebagai housewife dan working wife. Though some may say working mom doubles the job, it turns out working mom can escape from the situation and recover. Housewife lagi gila tak boleh ke mana unless you run away from home kejap to breathe some fresh air outside.  Approaching 3 years of working in the retail setting ni kan, ada beberapa option yang aku d...