Stargaze in midnight.


Salam 'Alayk. hoihoi. :)

 I'm back to write! (after I'd finished a quiz that I'm not really satisfied with and this writing was made after the recovery.lol)

 During my short and lifeless weekend, I daydream a lot. Like, a lot!
And I dreamed in sleep and nap too. Too much I guess?

 Yeah, woolgathering about my future job, my future self and of course I couldn't resist from imagining my own future wedding. tetttt...
It's actually neither to run nor stay in the stargaze; thinking that I'm still doing my degree and I should not think about it or I'm already 21 so i should at least have an idea of it. heart and mind war. Nahhhhh...

 Well, I have my rights to berangan whaattt...

 To make things interesting, these are what I dreamed of during my no-no study time.

 #1 : THE THEME

Rustic Wedding Theme!

More DIY - cheap, save and fun!
The "makan beradab" table / High table

 Tears were drooling last time I googled these images. Bukan gedik tak reti sabar, NO! But it's too beautiful. It's b-e-a-u-tiful~

 Of course Malaysia is a forever hot and humid country but nothing seems impossible nowadays. [with money]
But where can I find a barn designed like a foreign country barn not a bangsal at the backyard or a wide, green grass yard to put all those canopies, or if it's gonna be a canopy-less wedding, what if suddenly it rains heavily?.. or how can I make time to do all things as DIY when myself got caught by the on-calls, emergency ward round, therapeutic drug monitoring or what not. oh my.[berangan okay, berangan.]

 Tapi, gettin' pictures which hold thousand of hopes and dreams is simply heart warming.
Warm in the soul. Cold in the extremities. Please check whether you're having peripheral vascular disease. ok hambar. [post Cardio quiz syndrome. sorry]

 #2 : THE DRESS

Simple, minimal lace, Ivory


I'd like to be in off-white or ivory-coloured dress but I also can go with tiffany blue, salmon peach, dusty pink or any other pastel colours and the lace is a must. 

 Minimal details at the front region cause it's gonna be covered by my hijab anyway.
Not so tight at the arm part, wudhu' friendly. (if I'm gonna be lucky [or unlucky?-for some reasons] for having my menses on that day, it would be such advantageous as I don't have to care about my praying time, to get change or to fix my hijab again cause I just have to concentrate on the event!)

 Lol. everything has its own pros and cons kannn. haha

 And I like dress with empress cut for its design, unheavy detailings and able to make me look illusionistically tall.
because I'm lack in heights. OK, nuff of that.

#3 : OMG, THE SHOES!

Well I LOVE shoes, more than I love movies. Be it heels, flats, flipflop, peep toe or slip on platforms whichever suits my small little skinny feet, I would buy it and I would wear it.

Comfortability is a major criteria of all. *euoff course - read with attitude*


To match with my dress, I would pick these babies..

the 2nd one is PRADA. If you buy 'em, you ain't got a wedding to make. 

Where can I find you baby..
PRADA bridal shoes.

Or maybe when the event is getting longer than what you've expected, the former may changed into these..


haha not gonna happen unless your mum let you wear the Fipper on your wedding day. The Keds teacup edition might be a good alternative if your feet become severely sore or start to ulcerate. lulz.

#4: THE CAKE, THE HAND BOUQUET AND THE DETAILS

let the photos speak please..

 Single tier, made with love, decorated by me, tasted by me, eaten by all.
Add some colour to plain, simple dress. Red roses are too stunning, I need something more modest. Baby pink roses and baby's breath combination. 
Ever thought of calla lily bouquet? That one is CHANTIK too!
 DIY projects here and there. Make everybody around busy making stuffs. *Hitler mode: ON*
Simple yet mesmerizing details on table. Less workload, happy tummy. :')

These all are what my imagination can go beyond instead of imagining the boat conformation [stereochemistry] in Organic Chemistry and what not. 
I thought of these when I don't study. When I study, I didn't think about any of these. 

Basically there're more to think about other than these when it comes to a wedding. The most important part is you are gonna be in marriage life, and wedding is nothing but a day of commemoration of your first part of blessed marriage life. And marriage is distinct from a wedding. 

Quoted from Hilal Asyraf book, "Sebelum Aku Bernikah" - kalau hendak kahwin, semua orang mampu. Tapi untuk berumah tangga, bukan semua mampu. Perkahwinan hanya sehari, tetapi rumah tangga bertahan selama mana kedua-duanya mampu menjaganya, biiznillah. 

I'll make a post about what to have in mind when you're preparing towards marriage. okay? 
[bukan expert mana pun tapi tahu dan rajin ambil tahu. So, I wanna share what I know to y'all who don't know about what I know]

*hope that will help you guys out there*  toots.

The Dreamer,
AANA.





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