I just nagged.


Assalamu'alaykum :)

Hey. (lambai-lambai)..

Kau tahu, aku bukannya dari dulu mahu cerita apa yang berlaku. Dari kecik dulu, I felt like i'm living under a crystal globe that only involve me and my family and friends. No interruption from the internet, no cellphones, not even a radio.

My dad used to ask us with questions in the car when we were heading off somewhere or when he reached home from work. Soalan macam "Aimi, apa perkara baik yang Aimi dah buat hari ni?". Then to my sister, "Adik, hari ni adik dah buat apa untuk mama ayah?"
Yeah, cuma kami berdua masa itu. Kakak, adik. Yang lain masih di alam lain :). So when we're asked with Dad's questions, it took a while to figure out what have you done thru out the day. It was harder to think whether the actions done were good or bad or could've been worse. We were 4-8 years old children back then. dasyat punya question. Adik aku tu pun macam ter'mumaiyiz' lebih cepat dari budak lain. haha
And the questions were asked like 5-6 times a week. It made us to think before doing anything.
Yes, as a child, we do made tons of silly mistakes.

Nowadays, we are growing even more. Since we have newer siblings, the way of Dad-daughters approaches differ than previous. The older pairs of sisters need to look after the younger pairs. Parents were getting older and wiser. Ayah no longer asked us like that. The older pairs which is the 1st and 2nd born went to boarding school, leaving the younger siblings. When the last one was born, we finally having a brother. My parents approaches to son are definitely different from to daughters. Men are from Mars, women are from Venus, remember?

Technology were invading the world, leading to vast globalization.

It is good. Somewhat it brings benefits and ease. However, everything that comes from man will always have the ugly side instead of the beauty. Macam sekarang, kids are more concerning about their social media rather than to talk with family members. Sigh*

I'm assuming them as kids because a real mature adult do not neglect the others' rights. 

They feel that they should get up to date to every trend set by whoever in this world are. Dubsmash, sampai yang lelaki pakai macam perempuan, yang perempuan tergedik-gedik. I don't mind if you're doing it moderately, tak perlu kot semata-mata it's trending, kau bermati-matian nak ikut. Like if tak buat even one Dubsmash, you are lame. Sini nak cakap, NO ONE with normal functioning brain and having emotional intelligence will judge you like that. To those yang suka judge people "lame" or "out of date" because they're not following the trend, I think that you might have a slight wayar putus in your head. Get over yourself. :)

If technology can develop real quick, why not you?
Jangan jadi hamba kepada media sosial.

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